By Sophia Misle

For grandparents, relatives and caregivers stepping back into a parenting role, the journey can be both rewarding and overwhelming.

School pickup lines and bedtime routines may feel familiar, but most families face complex challenges, including financial strain, emotional stress and navigating legal matters.

One valuable resource in Johnson County is Parenting a Second Time Around, a support group hosted by Johnson County Mental Health Center. PASTA creates a welcoming space for caregivers to connect with one another and hear from experts who can guide them through their challenges.

At a recent PASTA gathering, the group welcomed Johnson County District Court Judges Stephanie Goodenow and Michael Joyce for a conversation about probate and family court matters.

“It’s a pleasure to be out in the community answering people’s questions about their lives and how it connects to the courts,” Judge Joyce said.

Judge Joyce, a member of the Guardianship and Conservatorship Advisory Committee who contributed to Kansas’ updated guardianship law, and Judge Goodenow, who now oversees family court cases, spoke at length about how legal processes intersect with caregiving.

“We’re always happy to talk about our jobs and educate Johnson County residents about the law,” said Judge Goodenow.

While the judges could not offer legal advice on individual cases, they strongly encouraged participants to consult an attorney when possible.

Consulting an attorney can help caregivers receive tailored recommendations based on the specifics of their case and make informed decisions for their families. Judge Joyce recognizes that the cost of hiring an attorney can be a significant barrier for many, but a single consultation may increase the chances of a favorable outcome and reduce errors.

“It’s worth it to spend a couple hundred dollars to talk to an attorney,” Judge Joyce says.

The Johnson County District Court Self-Help Center, Kansas Legal Services and the Kansas Judicial Branch can provide essential support for individuals who choose to represent themselves in legal matters. These services offer guidance on completing forms, understanding legal procedures, and preparing for court hearings.

First-time PASTA participant Mike Gott said he and his wife have taken comfort in knowing they are not facing these challenges alone.

“There are other people with similar struggles, or I think I’m learning worse, harder struggles than what we have,” Gott said. “Just being able to communicate with others in similar positions [makes a difference].”

To learn more and register for upcoming PASTA sessions, visit connect. jocogov.org/mental-health-training or call Leo Lankford III at 913-715-7852.

Sophia Misle is communications coordinator at the Johnson County Mental Health Center.